1. Start with High Value
Your first message should show confidence, not desperation.
Forget boring intros like “Hey” or “How are you?”
Instead, try something light and confident: “You looked stunning today, your girlfriends must be jealous”.
1. Start with High Value
Your first message should show confidence, not desperation.
Forget boring intros like "Hey" or "How are you?"
Instead, try something light and confident: "You looked stunning today, your girlfriends must be jealous". pic.twitter.com/4KAMVn5mcp
— Dating Dynamics (@Dating_Dynamics) November 6, 2024
2. Mirror Her Energy
Don’t come on too strong if she’s being brief, and don’t reply with novels. Mirror her energy and keep it casual.
It shows you’re confident, not over-invested.
3. Be Playful, Not Needy
Create a vibe of fun and playfulness. Tease her, use humor, and show a relaxed attitude.
Example: If she says she’s watching Netflix, respond with, “Trying to impress me with your top-tier movie taste, I see.”
4. Avoid Rapid-Fire Replies
Don’t reply immediately every time. Take your time—she’ll notice, and it keeps the mystery alive.
Responding too quickly signals that you’re too available and may lower her interest.
5. Use Open-Ended Questions
Get her engaged in the conversation. Instead of yes/no questions, ask things that open up dialogue.
Try: “What’s your love language?”
5. Use Open-Ended Questions
Get her engaged in the conversation. Instead of yes/no questions, ask things that open up dialogue.
Try: "What’s your love language?" pic.twitter.com/GGFdSgCC2E
— Dating Dynamics (@Dating_Dynamics) November 6, 2024
6. Don’t Overdo Compliments
Complimenting her too much can make you seem desperate.
Give a compliment only when it’s earned, and keep it subtle.
6. Don’t Overdo Compliments
Complimenting her too much can make you seem desperate.
Give a compliment only when it’s earned, and keep it subtle. pic.twitter.com/LFUxxgxxbO
— Dating Dynamics (@Dating_Dynamics) November 6, 2024
7. Drop Subtle Flirts
Show your interest without being too direct. Subtle flirts keep things light and intriguing.
8. Keep Mystery Alive
Don’t reveal everything about yourself in texts. Give hints, but keep some things for in-person conversation.
Let her feel there’s more to discover.
9. Know When to End the Conversation
Leaving a conversation on a high note keeps her wanting more. Don’t let the chat drag on.
End with something like, "Alright, I’ll let you get back to your Netflix. See you ;)" pic.twitter.com/d60nQnJWgj
— Dating Dynamics (@Dating_Dynamics) November 6, 2024
9. Know When to End the Conversation
Leaving a conversation on a high note keeps her wanting more. Don’t let the chat drag on.
End with something like, “Alright, I’ll let you get back to your Netflix. See you ;)”
10. Set Up the Date Early On
Don’t let the texting go on for weeks. If the vibe is good, bring up meeting up.
Say something like, “I feel like we’d have a fun time in person. Let’s grab a coffee or a drink sometime.”
11. Don’t Double Text
If she hasn’t replied, don’t follow up with “?” or “Are you there?” Let her respond in her own time.
Chasing her with texts lowers your value instead of raising it.
12. Keep Emojis in Check
Using too many emojis can make your texts feel try-hard or overly friendly.
Keep them minimal to maintain a masculine vibe.
12. Keep Emojis in Check
Using too many emojis can make your texts feel try-hard or overly friendly.
Keep them minimal to maintain a masculine vibe. pic.twitter.com/5mQnINg2A5
— Dating Dynamics (@Dating_Dynamics) November 6, 2024
13. Don’t Text to Kill Time
Text with purpose. Don’t text her every time you’re bored—it’s obvious and lowers your value.
14. Never Send “Good Morning” or “Good Night” Texts Right Away
These texts are for someone you’re already close with, not someone you’re still building attraction with.
Wait until you’ve established some chemistry first.
15. Focus on the Goal: Meeting in Person
Texting is just a tool to build attraction. The goal is to meet her in person.
Don’t get stuck in endless text convos—move things offline.
